Why women cheat differs from woman to woman. Some do it for love, some for their satisfaction, some need a boost in their self-esteem and some are just wired to be unfaithful.
someÂ opinion shows that it doesnâ€™t matter why women cheat. Once the cheating occurs, No looking for excuses for bad behavior. Itâ€™s known from experience though that if your wife has cheated, your first question will more than likely be, â€œwhy?â€
Below are four reasons some women cheat. Keep in mind that the reason behind the cheating is not as important as the cheating itself. Donâ€™t allow yourself to make excuses for bad behavior.
The Low Self-Esteem Wife:Some women become nothing more than a mother, housekeeper and wife who keeps the family running smoothly. Maybe she is feeling frumpy and unattractive. Her self-esteem is in the gutterâ€¦she no longer feels s*xy, beautiful or desirable. She is married to a man who takes her and the marriage for granted.Enter into the picture a man who compliments her, shows interest in her emotionally, tells her she is beautiful. A man who looks at her and sees something other than a mother, housekeeper and wife. A woman who is having issues with low self-esteem is a sitting duck for a man like this. She may find herself willing to throw caution to the wind in order to find the validation she needs and is not getting in the marriage.
The Emotionally Starved Wife:I know a couple that have no children. They both work hard so they can have the big house, the expensive cars and the prestigious lifestyle they believe will make them happy. Only problem is, they are working so hard to accumulate things that they are neglecting their relationship with each other.There is no romance in their marriage and any emotional attachments are to the â€œthingsâ€ theyâ€™ve acquired over the years. The wife recently told me she was â€œlonely in her marriage.â€ What happens when a woman feels lonely and no emotional attachment to her husband? She goes looking for emotional attachment elsewhere.
The Angry Wife:There is no better way to get back at a husband who has cheated than to cheat yourself. It is true that â€œhell hath no fury like a woman scorned.â€ If you want to bring out the worst in your wife let her doubt your fidelity.I know a woman who had been a devoted wife and mother. She had spent years putting her family and marriage first. She caught her husband with his young lover and was hell bent on getting revenge. She went to Victoriaâ€™s Secret, charged hundreds of dollars in lingerie and then found someone other than her husband to show it all off to. Her husband got the bill!
So, if you are out cheating on your wife do so knowing that she may end up playing â€œtit for tat.â€ Nothing is more surprising or harder to deal with than finding out your devoted wife has decided that what is â€œgood for the goose, is good for the gander.â€