If you were already working toward getting back together with an ex girlfriend, learning that she’s dating again can be devastating. While most guys do give up at this point, your chances of getting back with her are far from over. If you’re willing to be patient, think positive, and put in some quality effort? You can actually use your ex girlfriend’s new romance to launch yourself back into her life, getting her to break up with or forget her new boyfriend and start dating you again.
Step 1 – Let go of your ex-girlfriend
Before you begin taking steps closer to your ex’s heart again, you first have to let her go. While this might hurt, it’s just temporary. If it helps, keep reminding yourself that you are working toward getting her back, and letting go of her is an important part of that plan. Getting your ex girlfriend back from another man isn’t something that happens overnight. By not fighting the break up, you’re refusing to battle with her decision to end things with you. By not running off to stop her from dating this new guy, you’re showing a level of pride and maturity. Anything you could say at this point wouldn’t work anyway, so don’t say anything. You don’t want to come off as needy, jealous, or anything like that – this will hurt your chances of getting your ex back.
Step 2 – Drop back for a while
Leave your girlfriend utterly and completely alone during the honeymoon stages of her relationship. Don’t call her, text her, email her, or try to run into her either. Don’t acknowledge her new boyfriend, and don’t respond to any calls or messages from her. This step of the process requires putting yourself back in her head, and you can’t do that if you’re in constant contact with her. By disappearing off her social map, your ex will wonder where you are, what you’re doing, and whether or not you’re thinking about her. Not seeing you will actually make your ex miss you – and this is an important part of winning back her heart. SEE MORE ON PAGE2