HOW TO MAKE YOUR DATE THE BEST? If a decent date with a great guy hasn’t happened in some time, chances are you are putting out some pretty uninviting vibes, intentionally or not. If love is what you seek, it’s time to emerge from the rut and embody a sexy, sassy, seductive, attract-any-guy-I-want attitude!
Does that sound intimidating? Maybe even impossible? It’s not. Here’s how to kiss the dating blues goodbye for good.
1. Ask Yourself The Question That Trumps All Other Dating Questions
“Would I date myself?” It’s a valid question, right? Take an honest look at who you are, how you act and what issues from your past linger in your present. Do you engage in self-sabotaging activities? Is your inner voice your best friend or worst enemy? Are you comfortable being you? Before you can be ready for a healthy relationship, you actually have to focus on yourself first. Accept or fix your issues. Embrace your baggage. Work on becoming your best self. Once you can look yourself in the eye and think — Yeah, I’d date me!! I’m a pretty fantastic catch. — then (and only then) attempt the rest of these steps.
2. Don’t Fake It, Do It!
Don’t try to enjoy yourself. Don’t try to get out of your box. Just do it. Make a decision. Trying is an advance excuse for failure and for not going all in and giving it your best. Have zero excuses. If you don’t find success, make a mid-course correction and try a different tactic. Keep at it until you do find success.
3. Douse Those Old Flames And Light A New Fire
It’s time to clear out old flames and residual love baggage. Out with the old and in with the new is an attractive and incredibly exciting mindset. Who in your life have you allowed to linger around for no real reason at all? Who doesn’t serve you anymore? Who feels like a burden? Who transformed from being a crush to just a crutch? Who makes you feel used? Who is just a booty call to you (or you are to them)? Is being a booty call what you want for yourself? Is it hurting you?
You can’t open a new door until old doors are shut. So take some time and clear that closet of old emotional baggage as a bold step toward refreshing your love life. Why? Because you deserve to be happy and fulfilled. You deserve to love and be loved. So make some space for it, starting now. SEE MORE ON PAGE2