“How To Trigger Attraction And Become Absolutely Irresistible To A Woman/Lady


ACTRESS-Christabel-1-1024x838Did you know there are just a couple ways that men and women “get together”? And there are just a couple ways that things eventually “end up” for them? When it comes to getting together, most of the time, most guys have no idea how to create ATTRACTION in a woman. I mean, what do most men do? They try to “pursue” a beautiful woman and “win her over” by offering her gifts. Dinners. Flowers. And what happens? A woman finds a man like that “nice”, but there are no “sparks”. So she likes him “just as a friend”. But sometimes a man DOES understand what it takes to trigger ATTRACTION. He begins to communicate with a woman ways that makes her feel a powerful physical and emotional response that she can’t control. Sparks fly, and the man and woman “get together”. Once that happens, things again go one of two ways… Sometimes a man understands he can’t let himself become a Wussy who follows a woman around, constantly “shares how he feels” and becomes boring. He stays in control and keeps challenging the woman, and keeps the woman interested far into the future. But MOST of the time… The man begins to act more and more predictable. He starts to share “how he feels” too often. He becomes more and more submissive. And soon the woman loses all those feelings that used to create ATTRACTION. And soon SHE’S GONE. Why? Because most men have no clue about one simple fact… ATTRACTION IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT FOR WOMEN THAN IT IS FOR MEN. And I mean VERY DIFFERENT. Generally speaking, the way for a man to create attraction is to understand that for women, ATTRACTION is a PROCESS, not a sudden “event”. It happens over time, and it becomes stronger or weaker depending upon how well the man understands how it works. If you want to know how she feels about you, say “You LOVE me” in a condescending tone of voice, and see how she responds. If she says “NO I DON’T!” in an exaggerated, mocking way, then she probably DOES “love” you. That in mind, here are a few specific tips about how to create attraction in women: 1. Start from a position of STRENGTH, not WEAKNESS. When a guy finds a girl interesting, he usually turns into a ball of nervous, weak mush. Then he makes the mistake of letting the woman KNOW IT. Don’t do that. Be STRONG. Tease her. Challenge her. Be adventurous. If she thinks she’s cool, make fun of her. If she’s smart, argue with her a little. If she’s doing something, tell her that you could do it better. All of this is your signal to her that you’re STRONG, and the GAME IS ON. 2. Keep the TENSION UP. One of my favorite concepts is “Never let the line go slack”. This means that once you SPARK “chemistry” or “sexual tension”, you need to KEEP IT UP. Just because she starts doing things that hint she’s interested, doesn’t mean that it’s time for you to STOP. Quite the opposite, actually. Turn UP the volume. It’s working, so do more. Comtinue on page 2

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