Remember the groom who burst into tears as his bride walked down the aisle to him? Anna Deku has revealed via instagram that they both dated for four years and waited till marriage to have sex. Below is what she shared on Instagram five days ago:
â€œIf someone told me 4 years ago that me and my future husband would be waiting until marriage to have sex, I would have been on the floor laughing lol! But all things are definitely possible through Christ.
We live in a â€œtry before you buyâ€ world. A world where we are told to do whatever makes us â€œhappyâ€ in the short term. A world where having self-control is a bad thing. A world where we can somehow get the result without going through the process. I remember in my last relationship, when I decided to stop having sex, I was able to clearly see the negative attributes I wasnâ€™t seeing before. Some of you are in relationships that you shouldnâ€™t be in but the sex gives you a false sense of intimacy and connection that wouldnâ€™t be there if you werenâ€™t having sex. People think we follow rules but we follow our Father who loves us more than we love each other. We choose to submit to our creator who knows us better than we know ourself and it has been so worth it.
The depth of conversations, the way we resolve arguments, the foundation of our relationship. All established before the sexâ€